Still Balling!!!

Still Balling!!!

Dear Girlfriend,.
I attended the Power Couples Ball for the first time but it will not be my last. We really had a Ball in every sense of the word. All the guest at our table agreed, that was the best hotel food we have ever had. That fish and chicken was great and the salad was different from the usual. We were having so much fun that we were not ready for the night to end. While hanging in the lobby we discovered quite a few couples were staying at the Hyatt. My husband went to the rest room and came back with a room key. Not only did we spend the night but we had breakfast in bed. I must say this was the most fun we have had in years and I thank you so much for thinking of us. We had not done anything spontaneous like that in years. Since it is political season, I just knew it would get boring with politicians trying to make their points. Thank you for not allowing that to happen, but I still thought there would have been more politicians in the room. However, it was nice to be able to meet Senator Rouson. I also got a good feeling from the mayoral candidate Ed Turanchik. My husband and I decided we would like to put his sign in our yard, so if you get any, let us know.
My husband and I are still wound up and I’m loving him and my life with him. Now if I can only keep this feeling going, any suggestions?
Still Balling

Dear Still Balling,
First thank you so much for coming and I desperately needed that feed back. Ev-ery year after looking at the bottom line, I swear I am not doing this anymore. But after I hear from couples like you and I see the effects it has on marriages, I know I am doing the right thing and God is blessing the Power Couples Ball. As far as keeping this good feeling going, Staying in love takes a conscious effort. You have to give your marriage the same energy and attention that you would give a new relationship. Let’s start with something as simple as playing soulful music throughout your home, especially in your bedroom. It will inspire you and set the mood for fun times. It’s free on your TV, whether you have spectrum or Frontier. We must be conscious of not boring each other to death. You both need something fun to look forward to monthly.
I strongly believe you should invest in your marriage and maintain a date night at least once or twice a month. There are several great date opportunities coming up Jazz on the Lawn, Beats by the Bay and the R Kelly Keyshia Cole Concert are just a few. Get dressed up for date night. Put on heels or cute shorts and go some where, anywhere...just the 2 of you, or meet another couple... but do it!
If money is funny, pack a lunch and go to the beach to watch the people and the sun set as you walk along the waves. The beach is free except for parking and there are still some beaches that you don’t have to worry about paying for that. However if your money is right, jet ski or parasail. You don’t have to wait until you go away on vacation to do those things. We do live in Florida.
Every now and then have breakfast or dinner in your own back yard. Create a space! A table cloth and candle always changes the ambiance no matter how small or dismal. Prepare dinner or purchase dinner but put it on a pretty plate. Presentation is everything and men are visual.
Invite others over for dinner, cards or movie night. Don’t just sit in the house and gain weight.
Buy a wig or two and every now and then, greet your man in it, smelling good with music playing and a glass of wine or his favorite drink. That’s what the woman trying to take your husband would do. Make sure he can get all that foreplay at home.
Pray together and ask God for everything you want from your relationship in front of your man, if its more sex or more income ask God and ball on! Heyy!!

Tampa Bay Tammy

Radio and TV Personality Tampa Bay Tammy, Advice Columnist Dear Girlfriend. COO of N-Touch News. Studied Sociology at University of South Florida Studied Elementary Education at University of Memphis
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